HOW NOT TO MISS A GOOD GUY

Shyness has its good side and its bad side. Pretence also, has its good sides and its bad sides. I am not going to go into the advantages and disadvantages of shyness and pretence. But, I'll only say shyness, and pretence can inhibit someone, from having something really good. A friend and I once visited a place, where we thought, we could secure jobs. I had grabbed her arm, when a guy walked into the reception area. I told her, "that's one handsome guy," and she went "Uzezi!" Fortunately enough, on our way out, he was walking towards the building. I just couldn't pretend that I wasn't staring. When our eyes met, I believe I smiled first. He stopped when he saw me walking towards him. After the introduction,

I just told him what I thought of his looks and his outfit, after asking him if he was a model. He wasn't a model, and he was surprised at my admiration.

Since I kept my friend waiting, I couldn't waste any time. God! Was she angry! She said I was flirting. I told her I wasn't, that the guy is really attractive. Nothing wrong in appreciating beauty. Dear girlfriend said I ought to keep such thoughts away from him, because he would think I was desperate to get a guy.

I wonder why such thoughts should be kept away from the guys. Why play shy, or pretend not to notice? At times, he might be what she wants. I see no reason why she shouldn't go for what she wants. I see no reason why a true feeling shouldn’t be ex-pressed at the right time, without thinking what the other would think.

If everybody acts, by wondering what people will think or say, heaven knows this world would have been somewhere else. A guy sees a girl and gets impressed by what he sees. It's either he stares unabashedly or he compliments. 

What girl doesn't want to be admired? What girl doesn't want to be followed by catcalls? If you say you, then please, borrow Harry Porter's cloak before leaving home. Most girls, would play it off, saying the guys can go to hell with all their attentions, whether false or not. 

Truth is, if a girl isn't approached at all by a guy, she'd ask her mirror what's up, and she would begin to examine herself a lot more [when I say approach, I also include being appreciated by the opposite sex, in the terms of: You look good, I love your outfit, hair]. A girl should be bold and not miss out on something. She should be able to tell a guy he is cute, without thinking he might conclude she's having a crush on him.

There are lots of ways, a girl misses a good guy. Shyness, as I said earlier, can inhibit. Not all guys understand shyness. They wouldn't know how to crack such a girl, so, they will walk away. Miss Shy Girl would stand there, finger in between her teeth, watching, and wishing he would turn around and come back. Hard luck. Loosen up girlfriend. 

Pretense, this I hate with passion. Hear a girl bragging about the guy not being up to her standard, meanwhile, when no one is watching, her eyes are glued to his every movement and she's wishing ...

Playing hard to get doesn't pay either. Thinking this would make him trip the more after you, is really wrong. In case you don't know, the ratio of boys to girls in our dear one country is over one to four. Play hard to get and let, that bold girl at the corner get bold and spoil your cooking. You better be careful.

There are others, who lose out of getting a real guy, because they are waiting for Mr. Right. How on earth, do you know who Mr. Right is? He doesn't have this and that quality of what you want in a man, therefore, he isn't Mr. Right. Don't make that mistake. Don't look into the future when you haven't lived the present. The present determines the future. So, girlfriend, instead of waiting for Mr. Right, take Mr. Right Now for the present. And, maybe, just maybe, he might turn out to be Mr. Right.

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