Your opinion is needed here.
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Good evening Ma,
Please hide my identity. I need advice on a pressing issue that borders my heart so much.
Growing up as a girl, I had lofty dreams, which is normal for everyone; and one of those dreams was to have a wonderful, happy and amazing home.
Right from age 16, I had started dreaming of the kind of family life I wanted. I dreamt of having a comfortable, cute, intelligent and caring husband; someone who’d love me for who I am; my Mr. right.
When the time was ripe, I would have three smart kids, preferably two boys and a girl. I imagined my life as a wife and mother. I had it all figured out in my head. The picture was so perfect.
Then right before my very eyes, time went by and nothing was happening. With every birthday I marked, I felt I was closer to the future of my dreams.
One after the other, my younger ones started getting married. Soon they were all married but I, being the eldest, remained at home.
It was saddening and humiliating, being the eldest and watching your younger ones moving to their husbands’ houses. Everyone thinks something is wrong with me or much worse, that I could be cursed. I can no longer walk with my heads high. I feel ashamed all the time.
I have prayed and fasted, sowed seeds, dedicated my time and services to the things of God, yet nothing seems to be working.
The signals all around, especially from my father, mother, relatives and neighbours, is that I am long overdue. Everyone seems to be provoked and hostile towards me for no reason I can think of.
I will be 45 years this June and knowing that I am still single gives me serious concern.
What have I done wrong? What am I doing wrong? Is there still hope in sight? What do I do?
I truly need help! I need answers! I need solutions! Someone, please help before it’s too late!
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